Hello everyone remycraft here and today i’m on the opianaki server and i’m back with episode 4 today some of you guys are might be wondering why i’m recording day to day um episodes because i’ve realized that in the comments you guys were pretty interested in this concept of sharing and um Just sharing personal stories and how i deal with all these all these personal issues while just mining in opianaki so i guess since you guys think that that is a good idea idea i might just do it more often all right guys so just to put out um A disclaimer out there i could say um throughout this episode i wait what’s going on um okay um throughout this episode i will why do i is this a glitch i have like two never mind um yeah so back to what i was saying just a disclaimer this video will be Just tons of talking and tons of discussion and just um me talking you know about like uh personal stuff and stuff that people can relate to i i would say so there’s not much action in this there’s not much interesting content i would say that um visual content i would say That might interest interest some of you guys who are more into just um action-packed stuff so just a disclaimer this video might be a bit boring for people who don’t want to listen to personal stuff or just general me just generally need talking so yeah just to put it out there Um i think one of you guys suggested that i talk about bullying and that is a popular topic to talk about because since many people go through it and i thought might as well you know since i’ve got i i personally have gone through it myself you know like why not Just share what has happened and how i dealt with it and maybe some of you guys out there could take the advice or take the little tips that i have to like strengthen yourself and have more confidence in yourself because that is important that was that is vital i would say That it’s very vital to have confidence in yourself it’s very important that you believe and trust yourself and just don’t care about what other people say i know this may sound very cliched and very deep some of you guys might not like to hear such deep stuff Or find it really just boring you know you could click off to the next video um this is more catered to people who need help or need advice um concerning this topic of bullying and do um take note that i will be taking short few seconds of water water breaks every Now and then um just because it takes a lot of effort to talk and just i need water you know my throat um constantly just gets dry and just talking this much has got me tired already i know i’m a fairly lousy uh commentator you could say And i don’t mind because i have to admit i am you know i have to face it that i’m not that good of a commentator so yeah and that just brings me to one of my um one of my branches you could say about bullying um you have to accept who you Are you know even you have flaws and many insecurities you could say you have to like embrace them you know and like adapt to them there’s no way you can change them unless you really want to but um i would personally suggest that you don’t change them just be who you are As i believe your mother or whoever who just supports you would say you know you don’t need to care about other people what they say and before i start giving my own personal perspective i would like to start to tell you guys my own personal story and what i Faced when i was younger that relates to bullying all right so um personally i’ve been bullied as well when i was younger much younger like when i was i don’t know 11 12 years old when i’m just like entering about to enter middle school and Um it just really to be honest it really just it really did impact me it really did change the way i think and the way i behaved and like presented myself to people and why i say that is because i was like frightened and you could say i was I was like neglecting my true self and just worried that people might see my true self and think bad of me or like dislike me and that was a main problem that in when i was around that age was that people didn’t like me for some reason I guess i wasn’t that likable i wasn’t that sociable either at that age i um i rarely talk that much right but now at the age of 17 i really i’m a chatterbox i’ve changed a lot and yeah when i was at that age i really just kept to myself And didn’t really want to open up you could say open up to the world and open up to new friends i was just sticking to ever to whoever i was comfortable with and that was a big problem because people since that i was like that Um nobody really knew who i am to be honest and nobody nobody really understood me at school and um i have to thank my teacher because um she was my main supporter besides my parents and she helped me get through that tough time and just encourage me And i would like to like it’s you could say transfer all the positive energy to you guys and how i would deal with that so the main reason people then didn’t like me was for the fact that i don’t know i was in um i was an introvert and mostly of my Classmates just really liked people who are fun um um you could say cheery and just people who make them happier and i guess i wasn’t fulfilling to that and i had like um i had two people specifically that kept on um pressing me and like bullying me you could say Um mostly it wasn’t physical bullying at a time they weren’t brave enough you could say to physically hurt me so it was all just verbal i was verbally hurt and like really just cut and broken up by their words so um yeah and it was really just a tough Time i don’t need to go into detail as to what they said to me i’m sure many of you guys are affected by people calling you idiot people calling you and all those typical middle school stuff that immature people call each other so yeah and um throughout that time i was really Just lonely i had very little friends you could say and yeah so what i thought to myself was what’s what was wrong with me like why didn’t people like me why did people think i was inferior you know i kept questioning myself and wondering just like um sorry i almost choked Because of the water just because um like why am i indifferent you know and that was the problem you know i shouldn’t think of myself as being indifferent i should think of myself being unique i know how cliche that sounds and i want you guys to accept the fact that you are different From other people and it doesn’t change a thing you know we are all just humans we are all just people in this society who have to support each other and help each other to survive in this complex and cruel world we live we live in now um Yeah that’s all i have to say about this subject and what i suggest you guys um think is to allow it just um reset um and what i suggest is to accept yourself to embrace the fact that you are different to basically not care like don’t give a damn About what they say you know their opinion doesn’t matter you know um they won’t affect your life they’re not your mother they’re not they’re you’re not their brother or sister you have nothing related to them and you can live without them you know and you don’t need to be Easily affected by what they say that’s all i have to emphasize and um i would say that um telling a adult or someone who you trust is very important as well so i told my parents i told my teacher but that was like i don’t know how many Months of verbal bullying that i couldn’t take it and i decided to tell my um my uh parents and i told my parents first and then i told my teacher because my teacher was more readily available you could say she was in school she knew how to deal with all this Bullying stuff and yeah and why i emphasize on how important this is is that most people do not have the guts you could say or do not um like do not dare to face them the beliefs himself and that’s why you need friends that’s why you need support That’s why you need um advice as to what to do so i would definitely recommend telling a teacher or telling a parent um and see what they can help you um i know that there are teachers out there who might not be able to be Fully just um they might not be able to help you successfully so parents are just the the best people to talk to to in my opinion um yeah so that’s what i did i told them they supported me they told me what to do what what to think And just have positive thoughts and not care about what other people say and of course they did deal with the bullies themselves um i won’t go into detail as to who who they were they were both girls i know mean girls um not referencing to the movie Um yeah so i really just sought out their help and their dignity i could say to gain back my dignity and just to feel comfortable at school because that’s what you want to do you don’t want to stress yourself out over just people not liking you you know it doesn’t Matter in my opinion and you can always find friends out there there’s definitely i’m telling you definitely friends out there and people out there who will appreciate yourself and just like who you are you know you don’t need to change yourself because of other people So yeah just keep that in mind all right so let me just go ahead and sell all of these stuff as you can see my inventory is full yeah okay so i hope most of what i’ve said previously is quite constructive or in some way or another have Somehow helped you um yeah so basically just keep what i’ve said and set in mind um don’t care about what other people say keep being yourself being true to who you are you don’t need to change yourself for other people um you don’t live off them you live for yourself That’s what my that’s what um specifically my dad told me he said you live for yourself you don’t live for other people you don’t need to aim to please everybody i mean you can aim to please um a few people and the people who you love and Just appreciate you can do that but you don’t need to um try your best to like um i don’t think it’s necessary to make other people happy what’s important is that you find happiness in yourself um yeah so yeah that’s all i have to say just trust yourself believe in yourself Um yeah so i would like to say that a lot of people in america have weight issues um thankfully i’m not one of them but i do know people who do face that problem and it really breaks my heart how people just stab each other in the back and just like I don’t know just because they’re skinny they make fun of the people who are not and i don’t know i just find that a really sad thing and if you do have weight issues do know that um it doesn’t really have to change who you are You could definitely aim to be a better person and be um you could slim down if you want to if you feel that’s necessary for people to like you yeah so um that’s all i have to say uh i hope this episode wasn’t too short um i hope you guys enjoyed This episode of me just um oops of me just talking and advising you guys on what to do and what to think when you face all these problems i’m just gonna end the episode right here so thank you guys so much for watching i hope to see you guys in the next episode If you guys enjoyed this um opianaki episode please give this video a big thumbs up that would help a lot just boop the like button it just takes just one second just to press the like button it will help a lot and just show me how much you guys Support and like this episode if like the series if you guys did enjoy and subscribe if you want to if you want to be updated on my future videos and future content and yeah i’ll see you guys next time bye Video Information
This video, titled ‘Minecraft OP Anarchy | Ep 4 | “Bullying”‘, was uploaded by Nicole on 2014-10-30 18:41:54. It has garnered 71 views and 5 likes. The duration of the video is 00:14:11 or 851 seconds.
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